3 Things I don't Understand About Guys

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Today, I’m gonna talk about 3 things I don’t understand about guys. Actually, there’s many things but I just giving you 3 Things Guys Do and Confusing Me. This 3 things that could be annoying, ambigue, confusing and make you think “what do you want?” “what the heck” or “what do you mean?”

Here’s that 3 things:

First, On/Off Tricks

It’s not magic tricks that make you Wow. It’s make me Ugh! I don’t like this tricks. On/Off tricks also known as In/Out tricks. This tricks always make me confused.

On/Off Tricks : Sometimes he’s seems really exciting on you. he’s text you anytime and really fast to respon your text, calling you anytime. He’s seems like he’s really interesting with you and really into you.

And on this situation, I’m like “Wow he’s cute. I like him and I think he like me, maybe” 

but after that, he’s gone. I don’t know where is he. He is disappear. No text, No call, totally gone. It’s really off me.

 I assume that he’s not into me, I’m boring person, he’s found another girl or he just playing with me. Ugh! Who do you think you are?

Calum Hood? Luke Hemmings? Ashton Irwin? Michael Clifford? Or Mcdonough Brothers? Or Elyar Fox? Or Jannik Brunke? Ahh man, you are no one. You just a guy who messing with me. I’m so done with you.

When you totally forget him, move on then he’s come again. He’s come into your life. He act like nothing happen. He started texting you again, calling you, being nice to you. it’s really confusing. Helloooo.... where have you been? You are disappear and come again. What is it mean? What do you want?

I can’t ask him with many questions in my mind like, where are you going? Why are you disappear? Or ask his explanation about this. I can’t do that. He isn’t my boyfriend, remember?

He keep contact you now and make you up again. Shit! He makes me into him again and I’ll be hurt again.

And guess what? I’m right. He’s gone again. Wow! I’m not surprise. This guys really make me mad. He come and go like he want. What do you think I am? I’m not twitter that you can Log in and out like that. I have feelings.

Okay move on,

2. “Lagi apa?” and “Udah makan belum?” questions

It’s always happen. Guys always ask that questions, especially Indonesian guys. I don’t know what they mean. In the first time, it’s looks like he care with you but it would be annoying if he always asking you that questions.

Based on my experience, almost every guys (indonesian guys, specially) ask that questions for every girl who texting with. It’s not special anymore.

Honestly, I don’t like a guys with that questions. I’m sure he’s not really asking you that questions. It’s just his way to start conversation with you and he’s not asking that questions just for you.

You know what? I always thinking If I’m not having food, would he bring me food? I guess not.

The truth is he won’t. He’s asking me to get food by myself (it’s true, I’ve try to tell him that I don’t have any food) What???  Ga peka banget kan. Bukannya beliin makanan eh malah suruh beli sendiri. What the heck!

Oh ya, not all of guys like that. Ada juga yang rada peka dan ngajak makan bareng tapi, jarang. Hmm.. 1 of 3 guys, I guess.

Next,

The last things is Guys Code

Only guys who know this code. We (girls) didn’t know and sometimes getting wrong to translate the code.

Sometimes guys give us some codes via social media or their action to us.

In social media,

Usually, their tweet/post mean something, relatable with their feelings that time or maybe it’s just ordinary tweet/post, have no mean. Kadang kita salah tuh dalam mengartikan hal itu. nih ya, misal dia ngetweet/post “I found my sweet escape when I’m alone with you” what do you thnik? Menurut kalian apa arti dari tweet/post itu?

Ada maksud lain atau engga? As you know, it’s a lyrics of songs. Ada 2 kemungkinan nih,

First, dia lagi fallin in love. It’s seems like he want this girl. He want this girl always beside him. He’s really into her. He want her so bad. Dia keliatan nyaman banget sama cewek ini. Dia pengen terus-terusan berada di samping cewek ini. Kalau kalian lagi deket sama dia, pasti kalian seneng banget deh liat tweet dia tadi. 

Gimana ga seneng coba, dia keliatan pengen terus-terusan berada disamping kamu. He’s really into you. he fallin in love with you. but what if he just tweet that, have no mean, sama sekali ga ada maksud apa-apa. dia hanya iseng or he love the lyrics or the songs. How do you feel? Bagaimana perasaan kalian?

Tadinya kamu seneng banget. Kamu kira dia jatuh cinta sama kamu and ternyata dia hanya iseng aja tuh ngetweet disconnected lyrics tersebut. how do you feel about that? You got a wrong code dan biasanya ini yang menimbulkan PHP. Padahalkan dia engga bermaksud PHP-in kamu tapi, karena kamu salah mengartikan jadi kamu pikir dia PHP-in kamu dan begitu juga sebaliknya.

 Dia memang punya maksud tertentu atau ada pesan di dalam tweet itu tapi, kamu mikirnya dia Cuma iseng ngetweet terus kebetulan kamu suka sama lagunya and kamu retweet deh tuh tweet dia. He got notification that you just retweet his tweet. He thinks that you got his messages or you know what he means. Padahal kan kamu ga tau apa-apa ya tapi, dia mikirnya kamu ngerti sama kode yang dia kasih. Missunderstanding.

Next,

Guys Code in Real Life,

What do you think if he’s really nice to you, always beside you. In this case, he isn’t your guy/boy bestfriends. 

He just someone in your class/school who texting you, calling you, asking you to go to the party together, giving you chocolate in valentine, always spending time with you. What do you think? Is he like you? Yes, he act likes that. He act likes he like you. 

I’m not blame you if you think that he like you and you are happy with him. I would feel the same. I would be very happy if someone treat me like that and I’m like “Wow I thnik he like me and I like him too.” No reasons to didn’t like him. He’s very sweet.

Kamu juga nyaman banget sama dia tapi dia tidak kunjung menyatakan perasaannya. He didn’t tell you that he love you. sampai akhirnya kamu mikir kalau dia Cuma PHP-in kamu, dia ga cinta sama kamu dan mungkin bukan Cuma kamu aja yang diperlakukan kayak gitu. Again, you got wrong code. Sebenarnya ada 2 kemungkinan,

Pertama, dia benar-benar suka sama kamu. He really love you but he have no brave to tell you.  kedua, dia Cuma PHP-in kamu aja dan sebenarnya hanya kamu yang diperlakukan kayak gitu. You are not a special girl. Maybe he act likes that because he’s really enjoying time with you but just as friends. Dia sama sekali tidak memiliki keinginan untuk menjadikan kamu sebagai pacar. 

2 kemungkinan itu bisa aja terjadi and sometimes menimbulkan problem.

Honestly, I don’t like Guys Code. I hate Code. It’s hard to break the codes. If you translate the codes correctly then your heart will be safe but if you didn’t I’m sorry you have to healing your heart soon.

As a girl I want to tell you and giving you some advice. I know I’m not expert on this things but I’ll try my best. 

First, I’m begging you (guys) don’t play with woman heart. Our heart isn’t toys and you are grown up , didn’t need toys anymore. Don’t come and go like you want to our (girls) life. If you really love us then treat us better. If can’t replay our text that time or you really busy then tell us. We will understand you. we won’t pushing you to texting us/calling us. We won’t bothering you.

And girls, if you think he is just playing with you, come and go like that then leave him. You deserve better. You will find someone who truly love you no matter what.

Second, girls jangan tertipu dengan pertanyaan-pertanyaan umum yang biasa diutarakan sama para cowok. You know what I mean, right? “lagi apa” and “udah makan belum” questions is a classic questions.

FYI, he’s not sending the questions just for you tbh. My guys friend told me that every guy sending the classic questions to every girl. I’m sorry girls I just want you to open your mind. Girls, If he’s really like you or he wants to get to know you then he would asking you more than that. 

Dia engga akan hanya menanyakan hal-hal pasaran kayak gitu. Dia akan menanyakan hal-hal yang lebih spesifik. 

Example, how’s school? Bagaimana ujiannya? How’s your day? Band/penyanyi fav kamu siapa? Next time kita nonton konser mereka yuk! Or besok ada film bagus nih, nonton bareng yuk! Or asking you for lunch/dinner just 2 of you. something like that. I think it would mean the world than just “lagi apa” or “udah makan belum” questions. I’ll be very special If he texting me more than just classic questions.

And guys, please be creative! Don’t ask same questions to every girl. Treat her special! Make her thinks that she is special for you.

Third, guys If you really love this girl and you are sure that she’s the one then tell her. Just tell her how you feel about her. Don’t be afraid to tell her. Don’t use any codes, okay? Not all of girls can break your codes correctly. She need you to tell her directly without codes. 

Be gentlemen! Girls can’t predict your feeling with them. Girls can’t read your mind. They didn’t know how you feel if you didn’t tell them. Be Gentle, okay! Tell your feeling! No more codes! We (girls) are so done with your codes.

And girls, please don’t think he like you hanya dengan melihat his tweet, his text, or his sweet act to you. don’t be so sure. If he didn’t tell you that he love you the save your heart, hold your feeling. 

There’s many possibilities. I know it’s hard but I don’t wanna you to get hurt. Don’t try to break any codes, for safety heart. 

Let him tell directly about hiss feeling, without any codes. If he’s really love you he would be gentle and tell you that. Be patient and wait a moment. Jika dia tidak kunjung menyatakan cintanya then leave him. You are enough to wait. You deserve better. 

You’ll find the one who tell You that you are special girl for him, you are really mean the world for him and he wants you so bad in his life.

Okay girls, jangan baper kalau ga mau sakit hati. Kamu engga akan ngerasa di PHP-in kalau kamu ga terlalu baper. Just enjoy your life.

Okay that’s my 3 things I don’t understand about guys. I hope you like it. See you next post and love yaaa. Have a beautiful day and thank you so much for always reading my post :D I love you all <3

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