Kupisku: Soldier

Soldier

You got holes in your jeans

And few in your heart

You don’t know what it means to me,

To watch you fall apart.

Cause you’re broken and bruised,

But I can hold you through.

I’ll take you in my arms tonight,

Just me and you.

It’s sweet song. My favorite song by Before You Exit. You should check it out. This song is not about real soldier like army. The truth story behind this song is about a fan (Exiters) who sent a letter to BYE. She told them everything I guess. I’m pretty sure that letter really mean to them. The letter touch their heart. It’s kinda cute tho.

In general, this song tell us about someone who ready to do anything for someone their loved. They want makes them happy or feeling better. They would support them. They want make them know that they’re not alone. They’ll always be there for them.

“If we’re falling apart. I will fight for your heart. I can be your shield. I’ll fight on the field.”

By the way, it’s not what I want to talk about today.

I wanna talk about someone who needs our helps/support. Did you know there are many people out there who really needs someone just for to talk to? They need someone to support them.

What would you do if your friend have a problem? If you are a good friend then you will be there for them for sure. You would do everything to help them to solve their problem or at least just be there for them.

That is situation when your friend have a problem but what if someone else who has problem. You don’t even know them. Probably they’re one of your follower in your social media or they’re in the same fandom with you. What would you do? Ignore them or try to talk them?

Some of you maybe just ignore them. You saw their tweet/post which is told you that they have a problem and you just scroll and totally ignore them. It was like I don’t know them and I won’t getting involved to their life. It’s not my business. Seriously? It’s kinda mean tho.

And the rest of you, maybe try to talk to them. You take a risk to getting into their life. Probably you started with replay their tweet/post. Like ‘what’s wrong?’ Or ‘what happen?’ and then they will notice you and continue the conversation in private message.

I’m pretty sure they would appreciate your existence there, your effort to try to help them or show how care you are. It would make them happy and makes them feel that they’re not alone. There’s someone who still care about them. Just a simple response would makes something different.

So what would you choose? Ignore or Response?

I definitely response. It’s not because I love getting into someone’s life. It’s just because I wanna try to help. I wanna make them feel they’re not alone. Maybe I can’t solve their problem but at least I support them to through their tough life and make sure they can make it.

It’s not a bad thing to talk to someone and try to give them support even you don’t know them. If you want someone to being nice to you then you have to being nice to them. If you want someone to respect you then you have to respect them.

Yes, you’re right! It’s their life, their problem, not your business but it would be nice if you can help them and support them to through their life. It’s really glad knowing that someone care about you, isn’t it? Just a simple talk.

If you don’t mind to care about someone who clearly doesn’t even care about you or probably didn’t know that you’re exist then why do you mind to give your time to support or just talk to someone who really need someone to talk to? I’m sure they will appreciate what you do to them and plus you just make a new friend. It’s amazing, isn’t it?