Tuesday, 3 January 2017

Cool Parents




LOL….

NOPE…

HAHA…

My parents ain’t cool.


Chill! Simmer down!

I’m not gonna talk about our parents but it doesn’t mean my parents ain’t cool. They’re cool, really cool. I’m serious. They never punish me even I always lie to them or I always back home late, really late.

Today, I want to talk about “Me as a parent

Yes me. I know I’m 22 years old, never been married but I will someday. Someday is a keyword. LOL 
Okay, forget about that, at the end of the day I will have one or two kids. That’s my dreams with a lovely husband which is Calum Hood. I’m not kidding. LOL…

Anyway, This Me as a parent, 
Let’s say I have a girl..

I’ll be her best friend, her sister and her mother. I’ll always listening her whatever she said. I’ll try to understand her feelings. I’ll always support her as long as it’s a positive thing. Fangirl is a positive thing, so I’ll support her this way.

I’ll teach her how to be a strong girl but it’s okay to have tears but not too much. It’s okay to gain your weight as long as she’s happy and I’ll help her to lose her weight when she want it.

I’ll teach her how to face a boy. Do not always said yes to a boy. A boy can be a d*ck sometimes because he is a boy. Do not take it too serious. Do not expect too much unless he’s in a band. It’s okay to fancy a band member. They’re kinda hot tho.

You can tell me anything. When I said anything, I really mean it.
I would never judge you. I would never pressing you. You can do whatever you want, positive way. Just follow your passion. Follow what you want not what other people want.
And don’t listen what people said!

Don’t let them bring you down! Nobody can drag you down. You’re amazing.

I’ll teach you how to cook. I’ll teach you how to face people. Be nice to other even though they hurt you. Just be nice. But if they crosses the line then leave them. Screw them! You deserve better.

If you got a bad score or lose your grade, I won’t be mad. Don’t worried! I would be like “it’s okay honey, I know you can make it. Don’t give up! It’s not the end of the world. You won’t die just because you got D or F or failed an exam. You’ll survive. Just try again next year. I’ll be here when you need me.” And I’ll make a hot chocolate for you or an ice cream or whatever you want to make it better.

If you have a boyfriend someday then make sure he’s the one. He won’t stay mad at you. He will always beside you no matter what. He won’t ask for s*x. if he’s the one and you love him so much then Don’t hurt him.

Basically, Do not hurt anyone! Especially, people you love. If your boyfriend or crush hurt you, cheating on you, lying every time then you better leave him. You deserve better. Let him lose someone who care about him. He’s worthless. You’ll find someone who truly love you just the way you are.

Okay next, when I said I’m okay you join a fandom. I mean it. Really mean it. You can join any fandom you want but please Don’t be a fake fans! Please Don’t! I hate it. Do not love a band just because they’re hot. Okay? Love their music too, their personalities as well. Don’t start drama!
And this is important, Don’t give up of everything!! I know you can make it.

If you need a ticket concert or band merchandise, I’ll give it to you as a present. But I ain’t always give you those things. You need to saving up your money for those things as well. It felt amazing when you got something because you try really hard to make it happen. Trust me. I’ve been there before.

The point is I’m your mom. You have to respect me as your parent. but I’m also your best friend. You can tell me anything. I’ll be there when you need me. I’ll always support you as long as it’s positive things

Oh yeah, I forgot, when I said positive things,  it doesn’t mean you can get pregnant before marriage. No s*x, No drugs, No smoking, No, No, No…

I won’t pressing you or push yourself so hard, so no reasons to using drugs, smoking or having s*x before marriage. I’ll always watching you. Sounds creepy, I know but it’s my job.


Next, let’s say I have a boy..

Maybe your dad have a big part of your journey.
He’ll teach you more about being a boy or guy.
As a mom I just wanna say Do not hurt a girl!! I’m serious. Respect them! Your mom is a women, remember that.

If you ask a girl to be your girl then you should treat her better. Don’t hurt her! Don’t using her for s*x! she’s your girl, keep her, treat her like the way you want a boy treat your sister or your daughter. You’ll have one someday.

When a girl said she love you even though it’s hurt her so much. She mean it. She’s really love you. Don’t hurt her again! She won’t come back.

Do not using drugs, having s*x before marriage and Don’t smoking, please. I love you. Don’t make a girl pregnant! Sometimes relationship ain’t always about s*x.

I’ll always support you as long as it’s a positive thing.

 Follow your dreams. Follow your passion.
If You love music then join a band or be a singer or whatever you want.
If You love football then be a football player.

Don’t give up of everything!! You can make it. I know you can.
I think it’s enough because your dad will teach you more things. You should listen him.



I forgot something, a name.

If you are a girl, your name will be Alleisha Annisa Hood
If you are a boy, your name will be Braiden Hanif Hood

Ps: your last name is flexible. It could be Hood/Hemmings/Irwin/Clifford/Mcdonough/Afshari/Brunke or whatever. It depends on who is your daddy.

As your parents, me and your dad will always be there for you no matter what, always support you, always loving you. You are the best thing in our life.


See you next post. Have a beautiful day J
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